Monday, February 16, 2015

Writing What You Like to Read

Recently, I was at a bookstore, thumbing through a literary magazine (which shall remain nameless), and suddenly slammed it shut, like I'd just been caught reading 50 Shades of Grey during Mass. (I can't help thinking that if I actually did that in church, the rest of the congregation would point at me and shriek, "Get thee gone, Jezebel!")

The reason I stopped reading the story in that magazine was because it described in graphic detail a menage a trois (at least, I hope only three people were involved, and that I wouldn't have eventually stumbled upon an even more graphic description of a full-on orgy). This wasn't an "adult" magazine; this was a reputable literary magazine that many writers, including me, aspire to be published in.

Many editors and writers always say that people who want to be published in those periodicals should read them and familiarize themselves with what those publications are looking for. That's what I was trying to do that day in the bookstore. But although I'm not one of those people who think that everything on TV and in books should be G-rated (seriously, how boring would THAT be?), I do feel uncomfortable when I read some of the stories that are praised and published in those magazines.

I'm not saying that sex should NEVER be written about, especially because many of the chick lit novels that I've read do include love scenes. Some of them, however, go a little too far. For example, I read a scene where a girl's car literally exploded (someone was trying to kill her). Instead of doing something that made sense, like call the cops or the fire department or RUN AWAY SCREAMING, she and the FBI agent who was supposed to protect her went back into her house and...well, you know. And meanwhile I'm shaking my head and thinking, "This is what gets published?"

I've read other stories in other literary magazines that describe events that I don't describe in my own stories, like drug abuse, violence, and suicide. These are all important, real-life issues that should not be swept under the rug. But that doesn't mean that I want to be the one who writes about them.

Although I love reading chick lit, sometimes it's hard for me to relate to the main characters, whose lives often revolve around finding and/or keeping a guy. Although finding true love is important to me too, anyone who's read this blog for a while will know that I'm married to my work. Most of the guys I've dated didn't appreciate coming in second, and I don't blame them. I think that the fact that I can't relate to most chick lit novels is why it's been difficult for me to write one of my own.

One genre I love reading even more than chick lit is humor writing. Dave Barry was the first humor writer I ever read. He could make ordinary things like taking his dog out to go to the bathroom seem like one of the funniest things in the world. Angela Nissel, author of The Broke Diaries, knew how to describe a trip to Wal-mart or the laundry room in a witty, entertaining way.

I've also been reading hilarious memoirs by people like Jim Gaffigan, David Sedaris, Rachel Dratch, Jenny Mollen (though some of her raunchy descriptions made me think that the people at my church would probably hurl holy water at her but she would just stick her tongue out at them and keep writing), Jen Lancaster, and Tina Fey.What they taught me was that being neurotic and obsessive can be good, because I can put those qualities to good use in my writing. Those writers obsess over things that most people take for granted, but they do it in a funny way and they get paid for it.

I just finished reading Amy Poehler's memoir, Yes Please, and she wrote something that struck a chord with me: "Decide what your currency is early. Let go of what you will never have. People who do this are happier and sexier."

It made me think about what my own currency is. As far as writing goes, maybe my "currency" could be humor writing too. I haven't given up on the manuscripts of chick lit novels that I've written. But writing about my own life in a witty, funny way has always come much more easily to me, though I know I still have a lot to learn.

Of course, it's much easier for celebrities to publish creative nonfiction, though I don't discredit the talent of writers like the ones I've mentioned (especially because they are all very talented. On the other hand, there are also celebrity "authors" like Snooki, so...) But it got me thinking that maybe I should try to get my own humor writing published too, whether I collect some of the writing I've done on this blog or in my stack of journals and put it in a book, or whether I come up with new pieces and send them out to magazines and websites that publish humor writing (websites and literary magazines won't publish blog posts that have already been posted online, because they're considered "published").

What do you think? Do you write the kinds of stories that you like to read, or do you prefer to explore different genres? What kinds of things do you not like to read about?

10 comments:

  1. I think I do things the opposite of how normal people do: I often come up with a story idea, and then get into reading that genre. I do enjoy reading the books, though, but I think it may be because I feel a more personal connection because of my own writing.

    I think I'm pretty much ok with reading anything. As long as the writing is good and the story is believable, that is. But I'm perfectly fine with being shocked.

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    1. Hi Sarah,
      I think you're braver than I am; I'm the type of person who can't even watch certain movies without covering my eyes ninety percent of the time, and there are certain books that are too shocking for me to read.
      You're lucky that you can write in other genres; I've tried, but it's too difficult for me.

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  2. From what I see your humor mixed with heart are your strengths. That could be comedy, romantic comedy, or realistic fiction that has a humorous edge. You could write the Bridget Jones of Chicago--and borrow from what you know: grad school, dead end jobs, online dating services, the annoyances of the city, the gym.

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    1. Hi Theresa,
      Thanks for the advice! I like Bridget Jones, even though I don't smoke and drink like she does. :) I like the idea of writing romantic comedy, especially because that is my favorite kind of story. I have borrowed some of what I know, seeing as how my main characters are typically as neurotic as I am.

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  3. For me love is a mystery and I've never experienced it, which is why I write about it. But you could definitely write books with humor. How about a neurotic workaholic looking for love and all kinds of funny stuff keep happening to her? Your neighbors have definitely given you a lot of things to write about. Don't be afraid to not fit in a specific genre. Go where the inspiration takes you...if that makes sense. Experiment and have fun.

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    1. Hi Murees,
      Love is a mystery for me too; as difficult as work is, it's still easier to understand than love. My manuscripts have included descriptions of oddball/inconsiderate/hard-partying neighbors, actually. But thanks for the advice! I like the idea of writing more stories with humor, because I've always liked reading funny stories.

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  4. I know what you mean. One genre I love, and wanted to write in, is middle grade fantasy. But I'm finding I do better with contemporary stories. So we'll see.
    Good luck with yours! I think humorous writing is a great idea. :)

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    1. Hi Rachel,
      Thanks! I like fantasy stories too; when I was younger I always thought it would be so cool to live in a world where people (including me) had magical powers or to be able to travel to different worlds. But like you, I prefer writing contemporary stories. I do think you could write some really good MG fantasy stories, though!

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  5. Oh my gosh, Dave Barry. He is so funny. I can't remember the last time I read his works.

    I read widely, anything and everything that appeals to me!

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    1. Hi Emily,
      Sorry for my belated response! It's been a long week. Anyway, Dave Barry is awesome; I saw him perform once with his band made up of writers, Rock Bottom Remainders. It was so cool to see him and other writers I admire in person. It was also the only concert I went to where several of the people in the audience were carrying books.

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